jus back from wedding dinner, damn frigging tired :/ need to travel to some ulu place jus for it -.- oh well, here's a lesson for me: find a boyfriend with car, and you won't have any worries abt transportation :)
I did learn another lesson from the wedding dinner, not a gd lesson though.
I was enjoying the food and ambience etc etc... and soon, it was time to go home. My family was among the last few who left, and unfortunately, the unlucky ones to witness a ugly scene, one which i will never ever forget, sad to say.
The groom was drunk, apparently from all the toastings and stuffs like that, so i didnt know if i could blame him for happen. When i walked passed him, he was screaming at his 2nd uncle, asking him to explain his words clearly. The 2nd uncle was also drunk, and he looks VERY angry, wanting to pick up a fight with the groom. The groom's friends was trying to restrain him from starting a fight on his wedding day, and was telling him to cool down so that he won't scare the guests, especially the kids. The groom's mum almost fainted :/
The bride was standing right at the other end of the reception area, and was shouting at the groom, demanding him to keep quiet and stop making a fool out of himself on both of their wedding day. The bride was crying :(
That sparked off my thoughts, and i realise that even someone close to you(family, close friends,husbands, wifes.. etc etc) can ruin ur beautiful mood on a perfect day, or a day of great importance to you. Is it entirely the groom's fault that this incident happen? Can this incident be avoided??
The bride must be very sad right nw,i think. Hope she can forgive n forget, altough the most important day of her life is nw stained with some unhappy memories :( wish them luck in their future!! :D
Well, one thing for sure, i will remember that the groom actually existed( he's my relative) because of this incident :/
PS: FYI, this is my first time seeing the groom :/ i didnt know abt his existence until my family received the invitation, which is why i was very reluctant to attend this wedding dinner, besides the ulu place which was choosen for the venue of the wedding dinner.

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